Question, Answer & Decision in life?

recall back when you small and being kid, this kind of typical question will pop up....

Q:learning bike or not?
D:learn lah... can speed up ley, why not? end up racing and bump each other..>.< (my version)

Most of the time, the decisions was taken by parents.... we just follow them.
But when it goes until a certain level, the decision power slowly goes to us. "It's the time to use your brain, stupid!" yelling answer gotten when ask parents again for small matter stuffs.

From secondary get to University, we already making some of the decisions that changing our life story and also path. We always facing lot of miserable questions by time to time. E.g.: "where you wan to study?", "what course you like to choose", "what you gonna be in future", "which area?", "private or government?", "ptptn or jpa".......... only 2 answer typically can heard " I dunno" and "cincai (mean whatever)" ...... but always at the end only we know "there actually no have many choices fou you... OMG!!"  


Now University to reality working life, again all the qestions pop up again. "where you going after this?", "Master/PHD or company?", "local or oversea?"... and most of the time there is no answering at first, just a deep gasp"HAIZ!". Decision power totally goes to us, but there are too many sub attraction and limitation have to consider such as family, interest, value/money, sustainable....etc.

KC told me a phrase: Decision is make from outsources like research, listening other experiences and other's neededs. If one is uncomplete, the decision cannot be make up perfectly. And the internal requirements are analysis(brain) and heart.   

Tips: if you cannot make the choices, then just knock all of the doors, and let them find you back. Somehow you can't make up for first time but at least second time will be coming again if regreting and that time will be more clear!